Genesis 22:1-14: just not impt enough.

Sunday, November 05, 2006

just not impt enough.

maybe becos nobody speaks my love language. or maybe, simply becos nobody bothers to. at least not those whom i hold most dear to me...

8 Comments:

At 12:16 am, Blogger Jesselyn Ng said...

maybe it is not just not important enough.

maybe ten or twenty years from now, as you look back at this issue, you may see it at a very different light and a with a very different outlook or attitude.

maybe, to many people, it is "it doesn't matter how you feel and see it actually" and it is "all about me".

anything wrong about it? maybe not.

Nothing in this world is constant or never changes.

People are very volatile. What you know about someone may not stay forever that way for that someone. Same for ourselves, the Gwyneth now, ten years ago and ten years later may be different, or, at the very least, look at the same issues differently.

what you do to others (the love you give them), others may not do the same for you. The secret of giving is : never to expect anything in return, even to expect acknowledgement. Coz, the fact is, some people just don't appreciate. Some people may say "I didn't ask you to do this and that and to love me that much what." They have the freedom, they have the choice.

You are young still. As you grow and see more in this world, I believe, you will learn, not to hold on to things or people whom you love so tightly.

I have been through your phase once. There are many people whom I loved a lot who did not speak the same love language as I did. Did they wound my heart? Definitely. But, through time, I learned together with our Lord that

"It is more blessed to give than to receive."

"What I do unto others, let me do it heartily, as though, doing unto the Lord and for the Lord."

and

"There is a time for everything and a season for every relationship and every activity on earth."


Dear sister, look upwards to keep going and giving. Not around you. Sometimes, we will be surrounded by takers. Don't let these takers suck the life out of you.

Feeling for you,
Jesselyn Ng

 
At 1:00 am, Anonymous Anonymous said...

you're not just not impt enough but maybe it just that they love you using their own love language.

 
At 5:00 pm, Anonymous Anonymous said...

We all love you back. =)

 
At 1:08 am, Blogger gwyneth said...

thanks mrs ng. thanks for the reminder, i'll learn to bear all tt in mind :)

thanks 'anonymous'...but who are the "we"? and to begin with...you are?

 
At 1:55 am, Anonymous Anonymous said...

you see, im right...they all love you back. haha.

 
At 11:56 pm, Blogger gwyneth said...

"you see, im right..."

err...sorry, i don't see anything. don't know whatcha talking abt. ha. btw, stop being so ashamed of your identity...haa :b i can pretty much guess who you are anyway!!!

 
At 10:52 pm, Anonymous Anonymous said...

O really? i dont think so

 
At 11:07 pm, Blogger gwyneth said...

you wouldn't admit it if i guessed correctly anyway~ wat's with the secrecy la??

 

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